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Real Christian Parenting真正的基督徒父母

Real Christian Parenting真正的基督徒父母
By Chelsea Aubin切尔西班
There are a few types of parenting, called Christian有几种类型的父母,所谓的基督教 that has caused a big debate.这引起了大辩论。 Some people actually link Christian有些人实际上基督教链接 with child abuse.虐待儿童。 This is not the case.这种情况并非如此。 In fact, many people don't have the facts straight, and do not know what Christian事实上,许多人没有的事实,并且不知道该怎么基督教 is all about.的全部意义所在。

On this issue of spanking, the rumor is that all Christian在这个问题上的打屁股,谣言是,所有基督教 encourages spanking, yet this is very inaccurate information.鼓励打屁股,但是这是非常不准确的信息。 In a world where everyone in conscious of abuse and child neglect, many people are reluctant to apply physical punishment to their child.在这样一个世界上每个人都在自觉的虐待和忽视儿童,许多人都不愿申请体罚的孩子。 While years ago spanking a child was found as suitable punishment and was accepted widely, today it is looked at in an almost fear.虽然几年前打屁股的孩子找到合适的处罚和被广泛接受,今天是看在一个几乎恐惧。 Child abuse today can take a child out of his or her home and away from their parents.虐待儿童今天可以采取一个孩子的他或她的家庭和远离自己的父母。 There are two different views on spanking a child with any parent, even Christian parents.有两种不同的意见,打屁股一个孩子,父母任何一方,甚至基督教的父母。 There are those who think that this method is effective, and isn't abusing the child.有那些谁认为这个方法是有效的,而不是虐待儿童。 Then there are those who think that spanking their children will lead to abuse later, and that they could get their child taken away from them.然后,还有那些谁认为打屁股他们的子女会导致滥用后,他们可以得到他们的孩子带走他们。

About ten years ago the大约10年前的 practice of "Growing Kids God's Way".实践“成长的孩子上帝的途径。 ” This method was originally accepted but quickly sprouted controversy.这一方法最初是公认的,但很快发芽争议。 There are three main parts of this kind of parenting.有三个主要部分这样的父母。 The three are infant feeding, first time obedience, and servant hood. ...continued below/三名婴儿喂养,第一次服从,和仆人罩 ... 继续下文/

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Infant feeding is a technique that is supposed to show a child that he or she is not the center of the world.喂养婴儿是一种技术,是表明一个孩子,他或她没有了世界的中心。 That his or her needs will be met, but maybe not at the time that they want it met at.他或她的需求将得到满足,但也许不是在当时,他们希望在会晤。 This is almost the exact opposite of what most experts and parents believe, and that is that a hungry child should be fed when he or she is hungry.这几乎是完全相反的是多数专家和家长认为,这是一个饥饿的孩子应该喂时,他或她是饿了。

The next part of "Growing Kids God's Way" is Servanthood.在未来的一部分, “成长的孩子上帝的路”是Servanthood 。 Servanthood is taught by modeling that the relationship between Mom and Dad takes priority over the children in all circumstances, and that Dad is the head of the household. Servanthood讲授的建模之间的关系爸爸妈妈优先考虑儿童在任何情况下,而且爸爸是一家之主。 Dinner is served to Dad first, and his needs and desires are most important.晚餐供应时间是第一个向爸爸,和他的需要和愿望是最重要的。 This creates a family hierarchy that places the children at the bottom.这将创建一个家庭层次,把孩子在底部。

The next is First Time Obediance.其次是第一时间服从。 This is the thought that the child is to obey the parent the first time the parent asks the child to do something.这是认为孩子服从父母第一次家长要求孩子做一些事情。 If the child does not obey, then it is considered sinning, while if a parent asks the child again, the parent would be sinning because it would, it turn, be encouraging the child's behavior.如果孩子不服从,那么它被认为是斯辛宁,而如果父母要求孩子,父母将斯辛宁因为它,它反过来,鼓励儿童的行为。

People believe that Christian parenting, or people who accept it, are agreeing to the "Growing Kids Gods Way" program.人们相信,基督教为人父母,或人谁接受,同意的“成长的孩子们众神之路”计划。 In reality, this way of raising children has become less and less popular with Christian parents for the same reason it is becoming out of favor with any "average" parent.在现实中,这种方式抚养子女已成为越来越少,深受基督教的父母出于同样的原因它正成为人们的宠爱与任何“平均”的母公司。

Because of a few ill-advised Christian由于一些不明智基督教 programs, and because Christian parents are stereotyped as harsh, spanking disciplinarians, Christian程序,因为父母都是基督徒定型为苛刻,一顿disciplinarians ,基督教 principles are rejected.原则是拒绝。 Christian基督教 isn't child abuse.不虐待儿童。 It's simply它只是 by Christians, who are looking for the same answers and guidance everybody else is.基督徒,谁在寻找同样的答案和指导别人的。
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