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Parenting Teens - Getting Your Point Across 青少年亲子-让您点跨越
By Carol Shepley 谢普利的颂歌
Giving advice to a teenager is very easy; getting a teenager to take that advice is another matter altogether.提供咨询意见少年很容易;获得少年采取这种意见是另一回事了。 It's not only a case of the advice 'falling on deaf ears', sometimes the teenager seems Read more...这不仅是一个案件的意见'下降置若罔闻，有时少年似乎了解更多信息...

Tips for Parenting a Toddler 提示养育一个三岁的孩子
By Morgan Hamilton 由摩根汉密尔顿
Parenting a toddler can truly restore your you because of the playful nature and share wonder of the child.养育一个三岁的孩子才能真正恢复您的你，因为顽皮的性质和分享奇妙的孩子。 But at the very same time it can be one of the most trying responsibilities that you will Read more...但在同样的时间可以是一个最艰难的责任，你将了解更多信息...

parenting quotes: Human beings are the only creatures on earth that allow their children to come back home. 为人父母的报价：人是唯一的动物在地球上，让自己的孩子回来。 - Bill Cosby -比尔寇斯比

Step Parenting Power Tool: Using Family Rituals and Traditions to Create Identit步父母电动工具：使用家庭习惯和传统，以创建身份

Step Parenting Power Tool: Using Family Rituals and Traditions to Create Identit步父母电动工具：使用家庭习惯和传统，以创建身份
By Ron Huxley由罗恩赫胥黎
If you are in a step family and struggling for some sense of family identity, don't despair.如果你是一个一步家庭和挣扎某种意义上家庭的身份，不要绝望。 You can enhance your feeling of togetherness with the use of family rituals and traditions.你可以提高你的感觉，团结与使用家庭习惯和传统。
Step Parenting Power Tool: Using Family Rituals and Traditions to Create Identity步父母电动工具：使用家庭礼仪和传统创造身份证

by Ron Huxley, LMT http://parentingtoolbox.com赫胥黎的罗恩，洛克希德马丁http://parentingtoolbox.com

If you are in a step family and struggling for some sense of family identity, don't despair.如果你是一个一步家庭和挣扎某种意义上家庭的身份，不要绝望。 You can enhance your feeling of togetherness with the use of family rituals and traditions.你可以提高你的感觉，团结与使用家庭习惯和传统。

Rituals allow nontraditional and traditional families to form collective identities, facilitate healing, celebrate life changes, and pass on expressions of beliefs.允许非传统礼仪和传统的家庭形式的集体身份，促进愈合，庆祝生活的变化，并通过对表达的信念。 Rituals include daily activities, even if they are taken for granted, such as getting ready for bed, eating at the table, and watching a television program.仪式包括日常活动，即使他们是理所当然的，如正准备睡觉，吃在桌边，看电视节目。 They can also be much more elaborate, although not necessarily more symbolic, such as weddings, funerals, bar mitzvahs, graduations, and religious ceremonies.他们还可以更详细，但不一定更具有象征意义，如婚礼，葬礼，酒吧mitzvahs ，毕业典礼，并举行宗教仪式。

Regardless of their format, rituals are an important aspect of our social lives, and parents can utilize this hidden resource in developing more intimate families.无论其格式，礼仪的一个重要方面，我们的社会生活，家长可以利用这一隐藏的资源在发展中国家更亲密的家庭。 Family therapists have used the concept of rituals to help families that have been hurt by past actions toward on another or by an unexpected traumatic situation.家庭治疗师使用的概念，礼仪，以帮助家庭已受到过去的行为对另一个或意外创伤的情况。 Wedding vows have been restated by stepfamilies and have included all family members, including the children.结婚誓词已经重申了stepfamilies和包括所有家庭成员，其中包括儿童。 Letters of anger and sadness have been written ...continued below/信用证的愤怒和悲痛已书面...继续低于/

/continued... to unknown mothers and fathers and then ceremonially burned or destroyed as an act of saying good-bye. /继续...未知的母亲和父亲，然后隆重焚烧或毁坏的行为说再见。 Marriage bands have been melted down or thrown into the middle of lakes to break emotional ties and symbolize the need for an emotional divorce, even after families have already been legally divorced.婚姻乐队已经融化或扔进湖中，打破感情和象征的需要情感离婚，即使在家庭已经合法离婚。 Again, how one performs these valuable tools is not as important as finding a way to signify a gain, loss, or both in the lives of families.同样，如何履行这些宝贵的工具并不重要，因为找到一种办法，以显示增益，损失或在家庭的生活。

Often the most powerful rituals and traditions are the ones that come up naturally in a family.往往是最强大的礼仪和传统是那些自然出现在一个家庭。 Forcing a tradition, in a step family especially, is a guaranteed way to create more disharmony.强迫一个传统，在家庭特别是一步，是有保障的方式创造更多的不和谐。 Keep an eye for routines and activities that bio and nonbio family members seem to enjoy.留意的动作和活动，生物和nonbio家庭成员似乎享受。 What causes anxiety and frustration to leave the home and fosters a fun, creative, or relaxed atmosphere?是什么原因导致的焦虑和沮丧离开家和促进一个有趣的，富有创造性，或轻松的气氛？ Do more of those things.做更多的事情。

If you still are unable to come up with a family ritual or tradition, have a family meeting or kitchen table discussion about what members of the family would like to do on a regular basis.如果您仍然无法拿出一个家庭或传统仪式，有一个家庭会议或厨房的圆桌讨论什么家庭成员想要做定期。 You might be surprised what ideas come up.你可能惊讶什么想法来。 If reasonable, try these suggestions until you find one (or two) that fit your newly formed family.如果合理，尝试这些建议，直到找到一个（或两个）最适合自己新组建的家庭。

As children get older and situations change, rituals and traditions may leave or no longer be of interest.由于儿童年龄和情况的变化，仪式和传统可能离开或不再有兴趣。 If they are not related to deep spiritual values, allow them to pass and look for new ones to arrive.如果他们是不相关的深精神价值，让他们通过，并寻找新的到达。 Rituals and traditions are there to serve your family and not the other way around.仪式和传统是为了你的家人服务，而不是相反。

Get more ideas on how to create richer, more peaceful step families when you become a member of the ParentingToolbox.com website.获取更多的想法，如何建立更加丰富，更加和平的步骤当你的家庭成为会员的ParentingToolbox.com网站。 We have hundreds of power我们有数以百计的权力 tools guaranteed to fit your families needs.工具保障，以符合您家庭的需要。 Get exclusive charts, articles, presentations, blueprints, and expert consultation all for one low lifetime membership fee.获取独家图表，文章，介绍，图纸，专家咨询和所有的一低的终身会员费。 Get the answers you need now at http://parentingtoolbox.com获取您需要的答案现在http://parentingtoolbox.com
Ron Huxley is the author of the book "Love & Limits: Achieving a Balance in Parenting."罗恩赫胥黎是本书的作者“爱与界限：实现平衡的父母。 ” Visit his website at parentingtoolbox.com and get expert advice on anger management, mental health, and parenting issues.访问他的网站parentingtoolbox.com并获得专家的咨询意见愤怒管理，心理健康，和养育问题。

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