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Successful Parenting After Separation 成功的父母在离职后
By Jonathan Brown 新浪布朗
Separation is a challenging time for many parents because it is an adjustment to a new way of life.分离是一项具有挑战性的时间，许多家长因为它是一个调整的一种新的生活方式。 There are both positive and negative factors to separation and the corresponding changes, but one Read more...有积极和消极的因素，分离和相应的变化，但一了解更多信息...
Tips for Parenting a Toddler 提示养育一个三岁的孩子
By Morgan Hamilton 由摩根汉密尔顿
Parenting a toddler can truly restore your you because of the playful nature and share wonder of the child.养育一个三岁的孩子才能真正恢复您的你，因为顽皮的性质和分享奇妙的孩子。 But at the very same time it can be one of the most trying responsibilities that you will Read more...但在同样的时间可以是一个最艰难的责任，你将了解更多信息...
parenting quotes: Children seldom misquote you. 为人父母的报价：儿童很少misquote你。 In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn't have said. 事实上，他们通常重复字一个字你不应该说。 - Unknown -未知
Raising Bilingual Children: 5 Steps to Parenting Success提高双语儿童： 5个步骤成功父母
Raising Bilingual Children: 5 Steps to Parenting Success提高双语儿童： 5个步骤成功父母
By Christina Bosemark据克里斯蒂娜Bosemark
When I was growing up, the only way to raise a true 'world denizen' was at an exorbitantly priced Swiss boarding school.当我长大的，唯一的办法提出一个真正的'世界denizen '是在一个过高的价格瑞士寄宿学校。 Luckily, such elitism has been thrown out the window, and now parents raise bilingual and multicultural children themselves.幸运的是，这种精英已抛出的窗口，现在家长提高双语和多儿童本身。 The children grow up just as world-savvy and sophisticated -- and actually know their own parents!这些孩子长大就像世界头脑和先进的-实际上知道自己的父母！ Still for the do-it-yourselfer, a few tips can smooth the way.不过对大家都yourselfer ，有几个窍门可以铺平道路。
The most common question people ask me is "How do I raise a bilingual child the best way?"最常见的问题有人问我是“我如何提高双语儿童的最佳途径？ ” "Easy, just talk to them!" “轻松，只是他们交谈！ ” is my tongue-in-cheek response.我开玩笑的回应。 It seems almost impossible to imagine the baby transforming into a communicating creature, let alone one conversant in several languages.看来几乎是不可能想象的婴儿转变成一个沟通的生物，更不用说一个精通几种语言。 Although, the miraculous progress from cooing to speech occurs in exactly the same fashion whether it transpires in one or in several languages, the practicalities are different.尽管从奇迹般的进展，以讲话cooing发生在完全相同的方式是否transpires在一个或几个语言，实际是不同的。
Here are the first steps to raising your very own polyglot tot.以下是第一步骤，以提高您自己的多元因子。
1. 1 。 Family agreement: Even though agreement within the family is perhaps the most essential ingredient, I am sometimes asked, "What do I do if my partner doesn't want me speaking to our child in a language he doesn't understand?"家庭协议：即使协议在家庭内或许是最必不可少的组成部分，我有时问： “我该怎么办如果我的合伙人不希望我说我们孩子的语言，他不明白吗？ ” An insecure spouse may fear being excluded from 'the secret language' between the other parent and the child.不安全的配偶可能担心被排除在'秘密语言'之间的其他家长和孩子。 Discuss and compromise.讨论和妥协。 It is very important that couples find some solution that is acceptable to both parents as well as beneficial to the child.这是非常重要的夫妇找到了一些解决办法，是可以接受的双亲以及有利于孩子。
2. 2 。 Enthusiastic, yet realistic: Once the idea of two languages has settled in, many people consider adding more.热情的，但现实：一旦想法两种语言已经解决，许多人认为增加。 Usually the number of languages spoken within the household is enough for the child to absorb, but it's actually possible to successfully introduce as many as four languages simultaneously -- provided you can offer enough exposure and need for each one.通常讲的语文的数目在家庭足够的照顾儿童的吸收，但它实际上可能成功地推出多达4种语言同时-只要你能够提供足够的接触和需要每一个。 Still, research suggests that a child needs ...continued below/尽管如此，研究表明，一个孩子需要...继续低于/
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/continued... to be exposed to a language 30% of his waking time to actively speak it, and since waking time is a finite quantity, so, too, is language acquisition. /继续...受到语言的30 ％ ，他醒来时，积极发言，并自醒的时间是有限的数量，因此，也是语言习得。
3. 3 。 The practical plan: Next, you need to make sure you have a plan.实际计划：下一步，您需要确保您有一个计划。 Agree on who speaks what language to whom and then stick to it.同意对谁讲什么语言的人，然后坚持下去。 There are endless variations on the two most successful language systems.有无穷无尽的变化的两个最成功的语言系统。 The most common involves one person who always speaks to the child in the 'foreign' language.最常见的是一个人总是讲谁的孩子在'外国'的语言。 Anyone who is spending a significant amount of time with the child can function as this primary speaker.任何人谁是花费大量的时间与孩子也能正常运作，因为这主要发言。 The second common language system is where the whole family speaks in the foreign language.第二个共同的语言系统是整个家庭的讲在外国语言。 To add another language beyond those already spoken within the family, or if your family doesn't speak any foreign languages, you'll need to provide an outside source like an immersion program, a nanny or an au pair.要添加另一种语言之外，已经谈过在家庭内部，或者如果你的家人也不会讲任何外国语言，您需要提供一个外部源像浸泡程序，保姆或保姆。
4. 4 。 Get together: Building a support network is probably the most underestimated success factor, so find others who are raising their children to speak your language.聚会：建立一个支持网络可能是最低估的成功因素，所以寻找其他谁是提高他们的孩子说你的语言。 You'll benefit from their knowledge and be able to share both your doubts and your triumphs.您会受益于他们的知识和能够分享您的怀疑和您的胜利。 It also ensures future play dates that will provide your child with the ultimate language teachers -- other kids.它还确保未来的比赛日期，将提供您的孩子，最终语文教师-其他的孩子。 Books, music, movies, and toys in your minority language are the most obvious ways to boost your child's exposure, but there is also an amazing range of other household items such as place mats, tableware, posters, etc.图书，音乐，电影和玩具中的少数民族语言是最明显的方法提高你的孩子接触，但也有惊人的一系列其他家用物品，如发生垫子，餐具，招贴画等
5 Be patient: Raising multilingual children requires patience, and there are going to be times when doubt sneaks in. As with most aspects of parenting, it's a long-term commitment and there will be ups and downs.五要有耐心：提高多语种儿童需要耐心，并且将有疑问时，偷偷进来与大多数方面，为人父母的，这是一个长期的承诺，将会有起伏。 But remember, that's happening to the parents of the monolingual children too!但请记住，这是发生在父母的语言孩子呢！ Don't worry if your child doesn't speak his multiple languages as quickly or as adeptly as his peers.不要担心如果您的孩子不会讲多种语言他尽快熟练或作为他的同行。 Instead focus upon his successes and marvel at the development of his little brain.相反侧重于他的成就和惊叹的发展，他的小大脑。 Always praise, praise, and then praise some more!总是赞扬，赞扬，然后表扬一些！ Know that when your child says, "I want a hug" in your language, you'll almost cry with pride.知道，当你的孩子说： “我想要一个拥抱”中的语言，您几乎哭感到自豪。 At that moment, it won't matter that it took some extra effort or that you had to wait a bit for the result.在那一刻，它不会的问题，它采取了一些额外的努力，或者你必须稍等片刻后的结果。
And, hey, remember, you're not alone.而且，嘿，记住，你并不孤独。 Madonna, Andre Agassi, and Antonio Banderas are among those raising bilingual children.麦当娜，阿加西，和安东尼奥班德拉斯属于那些提高双语儿童。 And if they can do it, why shouldn't you?如果他们可以做到这一点，为什么不应该吗？
Christina Bosemark is the founder of Multilingual Children's Association,http://www.multilingualchildren.org, the definitive guide to raising bilingual children featuring expert advice and real world wisdom with parent discussions, resource directory, tips, articles and more.克里斯蒂娜Bosemark是多语言的创始人儿童协会， http://www.multilingualchildren.org ，最终的指导，提高双语儿童采用专家咨询和现实世界的智慧与家长讨论，资源目录，技巧，文章和更多。 Ask us you most burning questions or share your own experiences here!你问我们最紧迫的问题或分享自己的经验在这里！
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